So what’s this all about?

We all have those lists in our head of what we want in a partner/lover etc. Some of us take the time to write them down, some just keep them as an ever growing list in our head.

This group blog came as an idea of just that, why not keep a list and why not get everyone else’s input?

Thus, “1,001 Things I Want in a Lover” or “A Choice in the Matter” was born.

And yes, I am aware that I stole the idea/lines from “Alanis Morissette - 21 Things”. I’m clever, but not that clever. You might also notice some of the “things” are based on song lyrics, just cause someone else thought them first doesn’t mean they are any less great.